We talk about these words a lot. It something we expect and demand from our relationships, we discuss it in our politics. It should be part of our religious experience, yet do we experience it? When is the last time that a crowd, or even an individual made a great deal of noise over you? I am not talking about the “adda girl” or “way to go man” that usually is accompanied by a slap on the back. I am talking floor shaking “hoorah” with clapping and cheers and whistles?